Monthly Archives: November 2010

A Girlfriend

Tears streamed down my face and I gasped through my sobs.

Was someone hurt?  Was there a tragedy?

No, I was with my husband and younger two kids watching that wonderful, heart-wrenching drama, Toy Story 3.

Uh huh.  It’s true.

If you know me, you know I’m not much of a crier.  I choke it back at the deepest of heartfelt films.  But this one did me in.

It was Andy, you see.  Andy, whose toys have loved him for years, went and got himself all grown up.  He’s packing his belongings and getting ready to begin the great adventure of his college years.  His toys are getting left behind.  So is his mom.

Did I mention that my oldest son wasn’t home while we were watching?  He was out with friends, including a pretty new one he affectionately refers to as his girlfriend.

And just like that, he’ll be packing for college.

Menu Plan Monday

Want to know the BEST reason for not having carpet in your kitchen?  When you’re replacing all of your carpet, you won’t have to deal with that one room!  While the rest of your furniture lives in the garage for a few days, your kitchen table can stand it’s ground.  Thankfully, that also means we don’t have to eat out every night this week.  Here’s my plan:

Monday:  Chicken Quesadillas, with fresh cilantro, tortilla chips, and salad
Tuesday:  Sub sandwiches, apples, strawberries and potato chips (our busiest night!)
Wednesday: Spare ribs, fingerling potatoes, and salad
Thursday: Chicken Tettrazini (sans mushrooms), salad
Friday:  Homemade spaghetti and meatballs, Great Harvest bread, and salad

Yes, I know, that’s a lot of salad.  It’s my favorite “veggie,” so we have it most nights.  If you need some mealtime inspiration, the amazing Laura has lots of other ideas at Organizing Junkie.  Bon appetit, my friends.

Posting has been a little light, I know…

Without offering excuses, but to give you a peek into the (positive) mayhem that is my life, here are a few of the reasons you haven’t seen a ton of depth here recently:

* lots of people in & out of my house: new furnace, counters, carpet, appliances, bathroom tile, paint, blah, blah, blah.  It is unbelievably time consuming to pull your house from the late ’90’s into today!

* a break in the water main.  Good timing.

* fast and furious editing on a book proposal.  I LOVE it, but it doesn’t leave a lot of leisure time on the table.

* a blog re-work is in the works, which means I’ve spent a lot of time on this blog lately, you just can’t see it yet.  Maybe by the end of the year?

* iPhoto trouble.  It’s very hard for me to admit this, even to myself, but I accidentally deleted all 13,000+ photos I had on iPhoto.  They were all cataloged by child, place, date.  It was beautiful.  Since that day I’ve had a difficult time taking photos and haven’t loaded a single one on to iPhoto.  Blogging isn’t nearly as fun without the photos.  I’m just sick about it.  And, yes, I’ve already been to the Apple store for help.  I think they wanted to roll their eyes, but they just kindly told me I was out of luck.  Stupid.

* 3 boys in 3 schools and difficulty saying ‘no’ to volunteering in any of them.

* coaching a boys basketball team which, again, I LOVE, but any leisure time left after the book proposal editing is pretty much eaten up by planning plays, practices, and game rotations.

* friends.  Of all of the things I’ll jettison to clear my schedule, friends aren’t one of them.

But you’re my friends, too–more depth here soon, I promise!