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Let Kids Play, Silly

In our hurry-hurry, be-the-best-you-can-be, read-at-4, master-violin-by-7 world, we’re losing something.

If they’re lucky enough to have any downtime, our littlest kids are likely to spend it tap-tap-tapping away on an iPad, a computer, or playing the latest game on their X-Box or Wii.  Leapster, anyone?

Older kids can add hours of texting and quality time on Facebook to the list.

Parents are starting to ask themselves, “Is anyone making forts out of couch cushions anymore?”

We lament it, but sometimes we secretly like it, too.  A plugged-in kid is a quieter kid and independently occupied kid, a kid who isn’t asking us to play Candyland while we’re trying to make dinner.  As every parent knows, it’s a quandary.

What’s a busy parent to do?

Moms like Sarah Wilson are joining the trend to bring imaginative play back into the lives of children.  I whole-heartedly support this effort, and am both stunned and saddened that it’s even become an effort. If you’d like to get on board, but aren’t sure where to start or how to help your kids learn to entertain themselves, here are a few ideas I hope you’ll find helpful:

 10 Rainy Day Activities for Kids (includes a super easy recipe for homemade play-doh)

Fun Summer Games for Kids: 9 of My Kids’ Favorites

Legos and Kids: The Pros and Cons

Old-Fashioned Fun

Any favorites to add, or links with great ideas?  Please share them!

Update:
Check out Mayberry Mom’s ideas for Artsy Activities on her Family Fitness Site.

Kids Can Learn a Lot from Nature

When we think about doing educational activities with our kids, how often do we think about taking a walk through the woods?  As the leaves begin to fall, and animals scurry to collect food for winter, there’s plenty for kids to learn while they’re on the go.

One of the keys to growing kids who love to learn is to find the learning that’s available all around us.

As you walk through the woods, help your kids notice what’s happening during the fall season.

If they’re interested in the leaves, help them understand why leaves turn from green to the beautiful reds and golds of fall, and then drop to the ground.  Encourage them to gather leaves, and make a leaf print when you get home.  Talk to them about everything they see; help them to wonder.

If they go for the acorns, talk to them about seeds, and look for seedlings.  Talk to them about the different parts of plants, and how seeds grow.  Help them think about how seeds travel, and plant themselves!  Consider planting some seeds indoors together, so your kids can watch them grow during the winter.

Do they notice the animals?  If your kids are curious about how animals make it through the winter, talk to them about ecosystems and habitats.  Help them understand which animals leave for awhile (migrate) and which ones stay and hunker down (hibernate).

Your kids will be curious.  The key is to capitalize on their interests and keep the learning fun.

Happy autumn!

To Read

My first son showed up reading.  Okay, fine, that’s a slight exaggeration, but as a parent I did what most of us do:  I read to my baby and I read to my toddler.  Until, suddenly, one day he began reading to me.  The little guy went straight to chapter books, no sounding out or struggling with that tricky silent “e”.

My second boy picked up reading quickly, too.  He didn’t fly into chapter books, but the idea that letters fit together to form words, and sentences, and stories clicked early.  He got it down and he was off.  A to Z Mysteries, look out!

And then my third little guy came along.  I read to my baby and I read to my toddler.  But a curious thing happened.  He didn’t read back.   I didn’t worry because I knew the other boys had just been naturally early readers.  I wasn’t Teaching With Phonics or anything.  They were just wired that way.

When my third son turned 5, we sent him to the “Spanish School.”  We have an immersion program here that’s fantastic.  We were amazed at how quickly he picked up a second language.  And–lo–he began to read in spanish.  Now, if you’re at all familiar with that language, you probably know that it’s extremely phonetic.  “I” always sounds like “ee”–they just don’t have all of the if, ands, or buts that we have in english.  What that means for beginning readers is that it’s easier because the letters always make the same sound.

When New Year’s rolled around that year, our son surprised us with his resolution: “I want to learn to read in english.”  It nearly broke my heart.  As we went up and down the grocery aisles and he tried to pronounce the words, he finally turned to me and said, “But mom, how do you know when it’s a silent ‘E’?”  Ayyy, I don’t know, I never had to do this before!

So what did I do?  I asked for help.  Having never “taught” reading before, I spoke with my older sons’ first grade teacher (at the regular, english-teaching, non-immersion school).  She smiled and suggested books with lots of repetition.  I’m pretty sure she was thinking, “Welcome to the real world, sweetheart.”  We tried these books, with some luck, but it still didn’t quite click.  He would sound out a word, seem to get it, and three pages later struggle over the very same word.  Plus, have you read those books?  Talk about dumbing things down…

Finally at the little library where we spend our summers, I stumbled across an old copy of Dick and Jane.  We tried it.  Progress.  He seemed to be retaining the words from page to page.  They had a few others in the series, so we checked those out, too.  And yes!  He got it!  Whatever the formula is in those books, it worked for my boy.  He was finally able to put the pieces together.  The books continue to use the same words that were previously introduced, as they add new vocabulary.  Are the stories fascinating?  Not so much.  But the older boys did get a good chuckle out of the title.

And my little guy?  Reading in english and spanish now, just fine.

Thanks, Dick.  And Jane.