Category Archives: marriage

Re-Ignite the Marrriage Flame

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Depending on how long you’ve been married, it can take a little more effort to spark the fires of romance.  Time, kids, work, and life can strip us of those initial feelings of desire.  We forget what it was like to want to touch, and to want to be touched, because small people are touching us all the time.  And that is most definitely not romantic.  We forget what it felt like to wait for the kiss, to anticipate it, to hunt for it, even, because we dole out kisses every hour of every day.  We kiss boo-boos and tears and we kiss our husbands goodbye but we don’t long for that slight, hesitant touch of warm lips.  Do marriage and parenthood mean the end of intense desire?  After a time, is all that’s left a slow-burning ember?

Of course not.  The desire is there, you just have to rediscover it.  Help it along.  To do just that, try one of these suggestions…

To read them, you’ll have to pop over to my post on Blissfully Domestic.

Take Care of Your Marriage

Exercise! Eat right! Get enough sleep!

If you read the newspaper, magazines, or really, anything online that’s geared towards women, you’ll often hear this advice: take care of your needs first.

It’s good advice. And if you’re married and have young children, you can add this wrinkle: you need to take care of your marriage, too.

For moms and dad who are overwhelmed with the demands of jobs, life, diapers, nighttime feedings, and toddlers clinging to every limb, finding time for love isn’t easy. After you’ve finally tucked kids into cribs and beds, it’s natural to want to fall into your own bed. All by yourself.

Is this the best choice for your marriage? What do you think? To read more about what I think, click over to my post on Wedded Bliss. See you there!

photo credits: UltraRob, goodrob13, & planetchopstick.

Your Best Investment? Invest in Your Marriage.

When we think about investing, we’re usually talking about money, right?  Save a little here, save a little there, add some compounding interest and voila.  With some foresight, effort, and a little sacrifice, you can build a stronger portfolio. 

Applying those same principles to marriage can make it stronger, as well.

Want to know how?  Click over to my post at Wedded Bliss to keep reading…

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