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A Smell of a Memory

Ahhhh, summer.  Blue skies, monkey in the middle, running through the sprinkler in the side yard.  When I think back to the hot, humid summers of my childhood, all of these things come to mind, but they’re not the first memory to emerge.  Before all of those thoughts, comes the earthy scent of freshly cut grass.  I hear the mower, I see my Dad, I smell that distinct, just-cut grass smell.  To me, that scent has always signaled freedom:  freedom from school schedules and cliquey groups; freedom to play and swim; freedom to read and dream; freedom to just be.

My childhood summers, mind you, weren’t spent in one place.  I didn’t have one of those childhoods where I made fast friends with a girl in kindergarten, endured the middle school years with her, then hugged her dramatically as we graduated twelve years later.  I did meet a new girl in kindergarten, and another in second, and fourth, and sixth, and ninth, and however many more you want to throw into the mix.  It was more of a vagabond sort of childhood, but my family was stable and sensible and we made the very best of it.  And one of the things that remained constant through all of the change, through the new schools and new friends and new towns, was the grassy smell of freedom, signaling the endless days ahead, all mine for the lounging.

There are other memories, to be sure.  We mostly lived in the south and I treasure the years at the beach, walking as far as I could along the shore, looking out beyond the farthest waves, considering all of the possibilities of life.  In high school, my girlfriends and I would slather on the baby oil and hit the pool, at once completely sure of ourselves and completely unnerved by the coolness of everyone else.  My grandparents and extended family lived in Pennsylvania, and I would go, for a week or two at a time, and spend time with family there, building priceless relationships with my cousins and aunts and uncles.

My summer memories are an amalgam of all of these things; I almost cannot separate them.  And, always, when I think back, the memories are scented with that grassy smell of freedom.

-Kirsetin

For this week’s Blog Blast, the Parent Bloggers Network is asking us to share our memories of our family’s summers.  To participate, click here for details.  You can win prizes from Huggies Little Swimmers, including beach towels, pool toys, and of course, Huggies Little Swimmers products.

More About Us: A Stolen Meme

Updated 5/26:  Okay, friends, here’s the answer:  For all of you who guessed that Choice A was Barbie, guess again!  Kirsetin answers to the meme were Choice A; Barbie’s answers were Choice B.  Hope you enjoyed getting to know a little more about us.  We sure had fun answering.

When you’re tagged for a meme, for those of you who are unfamiliar with this term, there are some basic ground rules.  Here they are:

  1. Post the rules of the game at the beginning.
  2. Answer the questions about yourself.
  3. At the end of the post, tag a few other bloggers and post their names, then go to their blogs and leave them a comment, letting them know they’ve been tagged and asking them to read your blog.
  4. Let the person who tagged you know when you’ve posted your answer.



So, I stole the idea for this meme from the Painted Maypole, who I found because she won—lucky girl!—SusieJ’s contest for the kid’s digital camera.  We though it would be fun for both Barbie and I top answer the questions:  Can you guess who is who?  (See poll, at right.)

Choice A: Kirsetin OR Barbie???  Vote at Right—This should be easy for those of you who know us!

What was I doing 10 years ago?  Ten years ago my tween was a sweet one-year old, just learning to walk, and I was basking in the glow of motherhood.  Having emerged from the horrendously difficult first three months, we had settled into a lovely rhythm.  I had recently quit my job and was doing free-lance work from home, a compromise that fit me perfectly: still earning some cash, still getting some professional validation, but no sitters or nannies needed.  I was freezing my tail off living in Green Bay, WI, but trying hard to make the best of it.  I was making friends with Holly and Janet, which turned out to be a smart move, since they have now been good friends of mine for ten years!

What are five things on my “to do” list today?  Drop off 5-yr old carpool kids at school, get groceries (again), go to lunch at a Mexican Restaurant with my Spanish class and speak only Spanish (big challenge, here, folks!), fold laundry (again), pick up 11-year old child & carpool buddy from school, make dinner, help 9-year old with homework (didn’t really need me), drop 11-year old off at soccer, pick up 12-year old Labrador meds at vet.  Okay, I know that’s more than 5, but I’ve always had a bit of trouble following directions.

Snacks I enjoy: Hmmmm…the key word here is “enjoy,” not “eat on a regular basis:   almost any kind of fruit—berries, kiwi, and Granny Smith apples top the list; jalapeño potato chips; sharp cheddar cheese; plain yogurt with granola; and did I mention jalapeño potato chips?

Things I would do if I were a billionaire:  For starters, I might switch out my rusty mini-van, with the doors you still have to close manually, for something that smells a little fresher.  Then I’d take a big chunk of the funds and set up some sort of fancy trust to offer continued support to our favorite charities.  I’d fund our kids’ college accounts, pay off the mortgage, do a few other practical things.  And last but not least, I’d pull my kids out of school & let them learn from life: travel, travel, travel.

Places I have lived: Florida (2ce), Pennsylvania (3x; 4 if you count college separately), North Carolina (2ce), Virginia (3x), Austria (semester abroad), Connecticut, California (2x), Washington, Wisconsin, Michigan.  Whew!

Bad Habits: Ooohhhh, must I?  Let’s see…not really a morning person and everyone who lives with me knows it; don’t always work well with others (thank goodness for free-lancing), tendency to completely blow things out of proportion (think parenting issues, here); tendency to think I know what’s best, for me and everyone else, too; texting while driving (really, I’ve cut this out—very dangerous); crackmail addict.

Choice B: Kirsetin OR Barbie???  Vote at Right—This should be easy for those of you who know us!

What was I doing 10 years ago?  I was reading to a three year old and chasing a 1 year old.  I was pulling wagons, pushing swings and changing diapers.  I was spending far too much time in toddler-like conversation! 

What are five things on my “to do” list today?  Catch up on Laundry (every day), frame pictures (on list for months and not completed), sweep out the garage, coordinate school parties, and exercise.

Snacks I enjoy: Homemade granola with fruit and yogurt, crisp apples, pistachios, popcorn and an occasional Twix bar.

Things I would do if I were a billionaire:  Give more to charity, travel throughout Europe with my family, hire a chef, and try to live a humble life.

Places I have lived:  Grand Rapids & East Lansing, MI –  great places to live in the spring, summer and fall… winter is another story.  That’s the time to travel to warmer climates.

Bad Habits:  chewing gum like a horse, interrupting (when I’m excited about a conversation), and cracking my knuckles.

We’ll tag Mayberry, Cool Zebras, The Bloggess and SusieJ for this one.  If you want to participate, too, just steal away & leave us a comment so we know where to look.